Being rude to people is not the same as being kind. Kindness is a gift to offer someone. True kindness can only be given from an opened heart. It is easy to misunderstand it as something to be bargained with.
Using reason and one's intellect to the best of one's ability, doesn't mean that one is right. Being right does not necessarily mean you have to be logical. There are infinite variables that influence our lives. Ignoring or accepting any number of variables, you will never be right. Unless you become or know all variables, you are only one variable looking at a limited number of variables.
Humility is knowing that you are not always right. True humility does not mean one becomes humiliated by the world. It is only the courage to accept one's limited view and ignorance. Humility means recognizing your mistakes, while wisdom is trying to learn from one's mistakes and from others.
It is understandable that kindness is hard to give away. Specially when someone can mistake you for a fool. Acceptance of being the kind type of fool, without pretending, you can at least expect to be treated like one. Being a fool, doesn't mean you are right, it only means you are no longer ignoring yourself, others and the unknown.
Without emotion there is no experience. Without experience the is no life. Our emotions come and go, because they are impersonal. Only we can give them meaning because we attach them to events, recognized as personal. Kindness can be viewed as an emotion that rewards ourselves and the world. Being persistent about being kind will sometimes attract inconsistent emotions from the world, specially those who have been suppressed.
A world without laws is a world without a compass. Laws are applied with humility and kindness, based on reason and context. It is not a tool to seek punishment. Whether you are a fool for not knowing the laws or knowing and ignoring them, it doesn't mean that there are no consequences. Only a machine can be impartial because it has no knowledge. Anyone can consider laws are applied unfairly. There is always another chance to prove a mistake was made. Ignoring the laws and ignoring the given opportunities may have long term consequences on credibility.
Our community values every individual, whatever the qualities that are presented. We are a like family here. We intend to keep everyone happy to the best of our ability and continue to pay for the services that maintain our online presence for as long as possible. Anyone that considers our hospitality pleasant or unpleasant is not something we intend to control. We intend to move forward, no matter the cost.
Commissar, you have broken the rules several times yourself, recently and in the past. The same treatment has been applied to you as in the case of others, Matro included. It was overlooked because you have a friendly character, are a good comrade and act with good intentions. No matter the reason for your insulting remarks, this is not the behavior that characterizes =RpR= members. It is only the honest hope that if you wish to continue within our ranks, that you will apologize for the recent unhappy events.More specifically to ProSabre, Matro and Sasha. They will appreciate it.
Xiadz, your ban on our forum as been lifted to give you a final chance to apologize for your insults, specially to Sasha. If this will not be the case, your ban will be restored and any time you break the rules, your behavior will no longer be tolerated.
You have 24 hours to present your apologies.
Thank you and have a beautiful Tuesday!